1. Monogamy may be highly overrated.
We quickly discovered that the twenty-something into the hottest Mediterranean town in absolutely no way needs to be dedicated to just one single individual. I identified how exactly to juggle my novios perfectly: one for the pulpo a la gallega dinner on Monday; one for flamenco at Tablao on Tuesday; someone to go right to the fiesta de Gracia with, plus one with who I reach Otto Zutz, although not fundamentally keep with. Provided that no expectations of exclusivity are set, I’m absolve to enjoy my time with whomever we please, while discovering various edges of my character introduced by each novio.
2. Catcalling is not so incredibly bad.
Brutish and incoherent as the infamous “GUAPAAAA” might be, i discovered catcalling in Barcelona funny and quite often flattering. It surely felt decent to be whistled after on a Sunday if the United states in me had been cruising the roads of Poblenou in baseball shorts, a ponytail and glasses that are nerdy. We definitely choose that to a man’s embarrassing, barely-there crooked laugh whenever seeing me personally walk by, decked away in my dress that is finest and fur, afraid to offer a lady a match.
3. A great amount of bacalao within the sea.
“You’ll find another man, ” my mom constantly claims, “just be you. Continue reading