Therefore here is what you ought to do: risk it. Be truthful you want to date him and that the FWB arrangement is no longer working.

If he gives you grief about this–and he probably will, based on what you’re saying here–remember that you’re seeing his true colors with him that. This is simply not an excellent guy, because a good guy will not make one feel shitty regarding your requirements.

Honestly, in most arrangement similar to this i have ever seen, the inescapable often occurs: your ex asks several times for something more, the guy rebuffs her, the woman goes along along with it because she does not wish to quit exactly what she’s got, which will be a lot better than nothing–and then 2-3 weeks or months down the road, he sees a woman he desires to actually date and also the very first woman gets harmed. Continue reading