Annie Lane writes the Dear Annie advice line.
Dear Annie: my spouce and i have already been hitched for 43 years. I have a good life, or more I was thinking. Recently I discovered that an affair has been had by him. Whenever I asked him about any of it, he told me it was just for eight months. In which he stated the good explanation ended up being because i’d not start intercourse. Ha, that is a two method road. Anyhow, used to do some checking and discovered down so it had been for 2 years. She has been seen by him on Christmas time and brand brand New 12 months’s Eve. And then he also came across along with her on the anniversary. I quickly discovered which he decided to go to see her several hours once I had major lung surgery.
He’s cried and told me just just how sorry he’s. And exactly how foolish he had been for carrying this out. Each day since i discovered this away, he’s got stated he’s sorry. But the following is my issue. First, she was lent by him some money very little, but $400, and she repaid $100. He’s got been calling her wanting the others. I discovered out he called her, in which he told me yes, he wishes their cash. We told him to forget it.
2nd, he’s had back surgery 3 x. The one that is last him with numbness and weakness both in feet. And he now has many variety of impotence problems. Therefore, i will be wondering if he stopped seeing her to get to me and so I may take proper care of him. Continue reading